Ray Durham is from Charlotte, NC, about 45 minutes away from me. These days he lives in a little town called Stanley which is only about 10 minutes down the road. I go through Stanley all the time. I have yet to actually run into him in a store or anything but I have seen him driving around. You always know it's him because it is typical "Small Town, USA" and definitely no one else in the town drives a Lamborghini.
I'm not sure what his attitude on autographs is, maybe some of you would know what his reputation for it was back when he played. But I have thought about keeping a couple of his cards in my car just in case I ever do run into him.